What if you could eliminate your child's aggressive behavior???
Chaos to Calm is a step-by-step mini course that walks you through a specific, detailed, and tested plan of what to do when your child is exhibiting aggressive or physical behaviors. Not only will you feel confident in your approach, but it will also nearly eliminate the behavior.
Have you been told to ignore the behavior, take things away, use timeouts, create a sticker chart with a reward that your child is really into, or to create a calming space with strategies at your child's disposal??
Do you want to know why this isn't working?
Because it's manipulation. Manipulation doesn't last AND it is actually teaching your child to use manipulation tactics on you.
What your child really needs is CONNECTION!
Connection is VITAL and it is often lacking due to the nature of busy schedules and cultural and societal norms that encourage behavior modification over attempts to discover what is really at the root of the behavior.
Behavior is merely communication. Your child is communicating he/she is struggling with some form of fear and/or feeling buried by the weight of feelings that have continued to grow and stew without an appropriate outlet.
Are you ready to understand aggression for what it really is, have a specific and detailed guide to nearly eliminate it, and uncover your sweet, fun loving child again??
imagine if..
you knew exactly what to do when the aggressive behaviors arose
you clearly understood the root cause of the aggression
you could help your child learn to manage his/her intense emotions leading to the aggressive behavior
you felt confident and empowered in your approach to handling the aggressive episodes
you could manage and resolve the aggressive behavior with strategies that build connection and ultimately nearly eliminate all physical behaviors
you didn’t feel the “mom guilt” after being overwhelmed and losing your patience
For the past week we have been implementing the strategies Kaili gave us and have seen an unbelievable difference already!!
I have a masters degree in education, and have been teaching for over a decade. We had a virtual session 1 week ago with Kaili to discuss our 3 year old's behavior and some major concerns we were having. We have discussed with pediatricians, speech therapists and other experienced people and have never had that many light bulbs going off. For the first time I was hearing things that I hadn't thought of, but that made so much sense! For the past week we have been implementing the strategies Kaili gave us and have seen an unbelievable difference already. These strategies have not only helped our son, but they are helping us understand where he's coming from and stay calm.
I was feeling hopeless. Especially as a teacher, how can I not figure out how to interact positively with my own child - behavior/classroom management is my jam! I'm so glad a friend of mine suggested reaching out for a virtual session. Life changing!
There were so many days I had to hold back tears…
I started to become the mom who couldn't wait for naptime…
I was completely overwhelmed and emotionally exhausted…
Hey Mama! I'm Kaili and I have a masters degree in pediatric Occupational Therapy with 10+ years working with kids with intense behaviors secondary to sensory processing challenges, ADHD/ADD, chromosomal abnormalities, and more. But it wasn't until I transitioned into working with kids in a new capacity that I truly discovered the challenge intense behaviors can personally bring.
When I had my second child I decided to open an in home daycare so I could be home with my kids. Suddenly, my oldest became aggressive and would actually seek out his younger brother just to push him down.
I couldn't turn my back for one second during the day because if it wasn't my youngest child, it was a daycare kid getting hit or kicked. Even when he was happy and I thought I had a few minutes to create a meal plan or set up the next activity, seconds later I would inevitably hear crying…and it was because of my child.
I started to become the mom who couldn't wait for naptime because I would set my oldest in front of a screen so I could get a break. As soon as my husband got home and the daycare kids were gone I retreated to my room.
There were so many moments throughout the day that I had to turn away from the kids and collect myself because I was completely overwhelmed by the aggressive behaviors, emotionally exhausted, and ready to cry.
Eventually I decided to stop being a victim to our situation and do something about it. I couldn't do this anymore. That's when I found Hand in Hand parenting and became trained in their connection focused approach; it transformed our entire lives!
The tools I've learned from my training as a Hand in Hand parent coach are interwoven throughout the entirety of this course and will establish a foundation of knowledge, confidence, and empowerment that will change the trajectory of the difficult experience you are walking right now!
What the course will cover:
Introduction
Hear my story and how these strategies have personally and professionally transformed aggressive behaviors.
Identify aggressive behaviors and learn the root cause.
Step by Step Guide
I will walk you through, in detail, exactly what to do when you encounter an aggressive episode.
FAQ
Get the answers to the most frequently asked questions that will clearly articulate how to handle a variety of situations you are encountering alongside the aggressive behaviors.
Helpful Tips
Additional strategies and perspectives that will help you navigate and work through aggressive behaviors all while remaining calm.
I walked away feeling empowered!
It was so helpful! Kaili is clearly extremely knowledgeable, but she is also empathetic as well. I felt seen and heard, but I also walked away feeling empowered with knowledge to help our situation.
What's Included:
Lifetime access to all course videos
Step by step breakdown of what to do during and after an aggressive/physical episode
Access to any additions or changes made for the lifetime of the course
BLACK FRIDAY BONUS: $100 off the total price
Paid in Full
Early Bird $97
Limited time offer. price increases to $197 November 30th 2023
You have been so unbelievably helpful and thought-provoking. You've encouraged us, but never judged.
Thank you so much, Kaili.
The best thing, by far, was to have your help via voxer. I cannot tell you how helpful it was to have you walk us through things and to hear your thoughts, knowing you were right there in the trenches with us.
You have been so unbelievably helpful and thought-provoking. You've encouraged us, but never judged.
God anointed you for this work and share so freely and happily.
We have been blessed by you!
FAQ
Why do I need a course on managing aggressive behaviors if I could just google different strategies and figure it out?
That is a valid question, but I want to ask you this…how much bandwidth do you have right now to do that?
Not only will this course save you time, it will save you loads of emotional stress AND it will give you foundation strategies that you aren't going to find very easily. These strategies focus on connection, not manipulation, which is what a large majority of professionals and google searches
Right now is a busy time for me, I’m worried I won’t have time! Do I need to follow a certain timeline to complete the course?
My question for you is, do you have the time NOT to address the aggressive behaviors? The beauty of this course is that its a “go at your own pace” type of training. If you need more time with one of the modules or strategies, take it! While it might feel like a time investment up front, it will pay back exponentially in avoiding all of the extra time you are spending trying to manage the aggressive behaviors and loads of emotional stress trying to remain calm, feeling guilty because you didn't and overwhelmed because you don't know what else to do.
How long will I have access to the content? Will the course expire?
You will have access to for the lifetime of the course. Plus, you will also receive any additions or changes I make during that time!
How is the content delivered?
You will receive an email with links to all of the videos for each module; you can either watch or listen, whatever fits best for you and your current season of life.
Will I miss out on anything if I buy now and have to start the course later?
Definitely not! This is a go at your own pace course, however, if you are really struggling with these behaviors the sooner you are able to get started and commit, the sooner you will see results!
What is the bonus I read about?
If you added your name to the waitlist pre-launch and purchased the course, you were able to receive 1 FREE week of voxer access to me ($200 value)!
If you didn't and you still want access via voxer for 1 week, no worries! It can be added to your mini course purchase!
"Kaili’s insight into how we feel as parents and how our children feel have grown my relationship with my kids."
Vienna l.
"I love Kaili’s practical advice and strategies! She makes you feel normal but also gives you awesome tools on what to do to get connected with your kids and stay connected through conflict!"
Vienna l.
Aggressive behavior isn't something your child will grow out of.
Are you ready to put in the work now to save yourself from more overwhelm, exhaustion, and challenge in the future??
Vienna l.
Paid in Full
Early Bird $97
Limited time offer. price increases after November 30th 2023